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TO SEE IN CHRONOLOGICAL ORDER: VICE PRESIDENTS // FIRST LADIES
Meet the First Ladies.
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DIED BEFORE PRESIDENCY / FIRST LADY / DIED IN OFFICE / WIDOWED IN OFFICE / MARRIED FORMER POTUS / DIVORCED BEFORE PRESIDENCY / DUTIES ONLY
For official portraits, check out the National Park Service First Ladies page.
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Martha Washington
FIRST LADY TO GEORGE WASHINGTON // #1
WEALTHY WIDOW
UNUSUALLY POWERFUL, AS HER FIRST HUSBAND, FATHER-IN-LAW, AND BROTHER-IN-LAW HAD DIED
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Abigail Adams
FIRST LADY TO JOHN ADAMS // #2
MOTHER TO JOHN QUINCY ADAMS // #6, WHO THOUGHT HE WOULD “BE DOOMED TO PERPETUAL CELIBACY” BECAUSE OF HER IMPOSSIBLE “REQUISITES” FOR ANYONE HE WOULD MARRY
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Martha Jefferson
WIFE OF THOMAS JEFFERSON // #3
SHE WAS FIRST LADY OF VIRGINIA
BUT DIED NEARLY 20 YEARS BEFORE JEFFERSON’S PRESIDENCY
JEFFERSON WAS HER SECOND HUSBAND
SHE MADE HIM PROMISE NOT TO REMARRY
HE BEGAN CARRYING ON WITH HER HALF-SISTER, SALLY HEMMINGS
AND BY “CARRYING ON”, I MEAN IT PROBABLY WASN’T CONSENTUAL
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Dolley Madison
FIRST LADY TO JAMES MADISON // #4
HER FIRST HUSBAND AND INFANT DIED ON THE SAME DAY
WAS THE FIRST TO PERFORM “FIRST LADY” TYPE DUTIES — THOUGH THE TERM HADN’T BEEN COINED YET
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Elizabeth Monroe
FIRST LADY TO JAMES MONROE // #5
ELIZABETH WAS STYLISH AF, BUT JAMES STILL ROCKED THE FOUNDER LOOK (KNEE BREECHES, HOSE, AND BUCKLED SHOES) WHEN OTHER MEN HAD MOVED TO PANTS
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Louisa Adams
FIRST LADY TO JOHN QUINCY ADAMS // #6
ONE OF ONLY TWO FOREIGN-BORN FIRST LADIES
ONE OF ONLY TWO WEDDINGS OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY…? IF I’M WRONG ABOUT THAT, CORRECT ME
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Rachel Jackson
WIFE OF ANDREW JACKSON // #7
TRAGICALLY DIED LESS THAN A MONTH AFTER HE WAS ELECTED AND A COUPLE OF MONTHS BEFORE HE TOOK OFFICE
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Hannah Van Buren
WIFE OF MARTIN VAN BUREN // #8
LIKE VAN BUREN, HER FIRST LANGUAGE WAS DUTCH
DIED NEARLY TWO DECADES BEFORE HIS PRESIDENCY
HE DIDN’T MENTION HER IN HIS AUTOBIOGRAPHY
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Anna Harrison
FIRST LADY TO WILLIAM HENRY HARRISON // #9 AND GRANDMOTHER TO #23, BENJAMIN HARRISON
MARRIED BEHIND HER FATHER’S BACK. AS HE DISAPPROVED
NEVER LIVED IN THE WHITE HOUSE (HARRISON DIED ONE MONTH INTO OFFICE; SHE HADN’T MADE IT TO WASHINGTON YET)
ALSO OUTLIVED 9/10 OF THEIR KIDS
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Letitia Tyler
FIRST FIRST LADY TO JOHN TYLER // #10
AGE APPROPRIATE! JUST ONE YEAR YOUNGER THAN HER HUSBAND
MARRIED FOR NEARLY THREE DECADES
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Julia Tyler
SECOND FIRST LADY TO JOHN TYLER // #10
THEY BEGAN FLIRTING ON THE TRAGIC U.S.S. PRINCETON VOYAGE THAT KILLED HER FATHER (AND OTHERS)
22-YEAR-OLD JULIA MARRIED THE PRESIDENT (MORE THAN THREE DECADES HER SENIOR) A FEW MONTHS LATER
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Sarah Polk
FIRST LADY TO JAMES K. POLK // #11
DANCING AND HARD LIQUOR WERE OFF-LIMITS DURING HER TIME AT THE WHITE HOUSE
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Margaret Taylor
FIRST LADY TO ZACHARY TAYLOR // #12
DIDN’T WANT TAYLOR TO GO INTO POLITICS; PRAYED FOR HIS DEFEAT
THEIR DAUGHTER, BETTY, HANDLED FIRST LADY DUTIES
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Abigail Fillmore
FIRST LADY TO MILLARD FILLMORE // #13
WAS FILLMORE’S TEACHER
ONLY PRE-20TH CENTURY FIRST LADY TO CONTINUE TO WORK AFTER GETTING MARRIED
GOT SICK AT PIERCE’S INAUGURATION AND DIED LESS THAN A MONTH AFTER LEAVING OFFICE
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Caroline McIntosh Fillmore
SECOND WIFE OF MILLARD FILLMORE // #13
WEALTHY WIDOW
THEY MARRIED AT HER HOME, SCHUYLER MANSION IN THE SAME ROOM WHERE ALEXANDER HAMILTON MARRIED ELIZABETH SCHUYLER
(GUESS WHERE I LEARNED THAT?! IN THE ROOM WHERE IT HAPPENED!)
FILLMORE SIGNED A PRE-NUP
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Jane Pierce
FIRST LADY TO FRANKLIN PIERCE // #14
DIDN’T WANT PIERCE TO GET INTO POLITICS
WHEN THEIR ONLY SURVIVING CHILD WAS KILLED IN A HORRIFIC TRAIN ACCIDENT, SHE TOOK IT AS A SIGN FROM GOD
STAUNCH ABOLITIONIST
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* See below
JAMES BUCHANAN // #15
ONLY PRESIDENT TO NEVER MARRY
SCROLL ALL THE WAY DOWN TO SEE HIS NIECE, WHO PERFORMED FIRST LADY DUTIES
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Mary Todd Lincoln
FIRST LADY TO ABRAHAM LINCOLN // #16
ABE AND HIS STAFF SOMETIMES CALLED HER “MRS. PRESIDENT”
… WHICH IS A HUGE DEPARTURE FROM WHAT HER STEPMOM CALLED HER:
“LIMB OF SATAN”
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Eliza Johnson
FIRST LADY TO ANDREW JOHNSON // #17
SHE TAUGHT JOHNSON HOW TO READ, WRITE, ETC.
MARRIED AT 16, MAKING HER THE YOUNGEST TO MARRY A FUTURE PRESIDENT
MARRIED BY ABE LINCOLN’S UNCLE
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Julia Grant
FIRST LADY TO ULYSSES S. GRANT // #18
ENGAGED FOR FOUR YEARS, SEEING EACH OTHER ONCE FOR THAT STRETCH
THEIR DADS WEREN’T ON BOARD WITH THEIR MARRIAGE
GRANT’S PARENTS DIDN’T APPROVE THAT HER FAMILY ENSLAVED PEOPLE
AFTER GRANT’S DEATH, SHE BECAME FRIENDS WITH JEFFERSON DAVIS’ WIFE
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Lucy Hayes
FIRST LADY TO RUTHERFORD B. HAYES // #19
WHEN SHE WAS TWO, HER ABOLITIONIST FATHER DIED TRAVELING TO FREE THE ENSLAVED PEOPLE HE’D INHERITED
FIRST FIRST LADY WITH A COLLEGE DEGREE
STARTED THE WHITE HOUSE EASTER EGG ROLL TRADITION
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Lucretia Garfield
FIRST LADY TO JAMES GARFIELD // #20
THEIR EARLY MARRIAGE WAS KINDA LOVELESS
JAMES HAD A FEW AFFAIRS; HE EVENTUALLY CAME CLEAN BLAH BLAH BLAH
EVENTUALLY SHE AND GARFIELD ACTUALLY FELL IN LOVE
FOR REAL
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Nell Arthur
WIFE OF CHESTER ARTHUR // #21
WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD, SHE BEFRIENDED FORMER FIRST LADY DOLLEY MADISON (SEVEN DECADES HER SENIOR)
CHET CALLED HER “MY LITTLE REBEL WIFE” (HE WAS AN ABOLITIONIST AND SHE WAS FROM A SLAVEHOLDING FAMILY)
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Frances Cleveland
FIRST LADY TO GROVER CLEVELAND // #22 & 24
ASKED THE WHITE HOUSE STAFF TO KEEP THINGS IN GOOD SHAPE BECAUSE THEY’D BE BACK
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Caroline Harrison
FIRST LADY TO BENJAMIN HARRISON // #23
TAUGHT MUSIC
ARRANGED TO INSTALL ELECTRICTY IN THE WHITE HOUSE, BUT WAS TOO AFRAID TO TOUCH THE LIGHT SWITCHES HERSELF
DIED TWO WEEKS BEFORE HER HUSBAND LOST HIS REELECTION
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Mary Harrison
SECOND WIFE OF BENJAMIN HARRISON // #23
SHE WAS HIS FIRST WIFE’S NIECE AND MOVED INTO THE WHITE HOUSE AFTER HER HUSBAND DIED
GROSSING OUT HARRISON’S GROWN KIDS, THEY FELL IN LOVE AFTER CAROLINE DIED AND GOT MARRIED
THE KIDS SKIPPED THE WEDDING
SHE OUTLIVED HIM BY ABOUT FIFTY YEARS
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Ida McKinley
FIRST LADY TO WILLIAM McKINLEY // #25
MISCHIEVOUS, LIVELY, CHARMING, AND BEAUTIFUL
McKINLEY WAS MORE DRAWN TO HER “SOMEWHAT UNLADYLIKE ZEST, IN DEVOURING HER CHICKEN ON WAFFLES”
DRIVEN AND OUTGOING
ENDURED A SERIES OF HEARTBREAKS THAT LEFT HER INJURED AND TRANSFORMED HER LIFE
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Alice Roosevelt
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Edith Roosevelt
FIRST LADY TO THEODORE ROOSEVELT // #26
THEODORE DIDN’T BELIEVE IN SECOND MARRIAGES AND SURPRISED HIMSELF BY WANTING TO MARRY AGAIN
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Nellie Taft
FIRST LADY TO WILLIAM HOWARD TAFT // #27
SPENT TIME IN THE WHITE HOUSE AS A TEENAGER AND IT WAS LIFE-CHANGING
DETERMINED TO ONLY MARRY SOMEONE “DESTINED TO BE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES”
TAFT WANTED HER TO BE HIS “SENIOR PARTNER”
SUFFERED A TERRIBLE STROKE A COUPLE OF MONTHS INTO HIS TERM; HAD TO TAKE A YEAR OFF FROM FIRST LADY DUTIES
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Ellen Wilson
FIRST FIRST LADY TO WOODROW WILSON // #28
THEY FIRST MET WHEN HE WAS 6 YEARS OLD (ELLEN WAS JUST A BABY)
GIFTED ARTIST
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Edith Wilson
SECOND FIRST LADY TO WOODROW WILSON // #28
NEWLY WIDOWED WILSON FELL HARD FOR EDITH (HERSELF A WIDOW) QUICKLY
RECEIVED THE FIRST DRIVER’S LICENSE ISSUED TO A WOMAN IN WASHINGTON, D.C.
WAS BASICALLY PRESIDENT SECRETLY FOR A BIT AFTER WILSON’S SECRET HEALTH ISSUES
(“GOVERNMENT BY PETTICOAT”)HELD SÉANCES AFTER WILSON DIED TO TRY TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM
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Florence Harding
FIRST LADY TO WARREN G. HARDING // #29
FROM ONE OF MARION, OHIO’S RICHEST FAMILIES
REBELLED AGAINST HER OVERBEARING DAD, AND GOT PREGNANT WITH THE TOWN DRUNK
ENDED UP DESTITUTE
TAUGHT HARDING’S SISTER PIANO
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Grace Coolidge
FIRST LADY TO CALVIN COOLIDGE // #30
WHEN HER MOM SUGGESTED SHE DELAY HER WEDDING UNTIL SHE’D HAD A YEAR OF WORK EXPERIENCE OR KNEW HOW TO BAKE BREAD, COOLIDGE SNAPPED “WE WILL BUY BREAD!”
LOVED ANIMALS, MUSIC, AND CHILDREN
HAD A PET RACCOON NAMED REBECCA
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Lou Hoover
FIRST LADY TO HERBERT HOOVER // #31
LOU WAS BAD ASS
WELL-READ, ADVENTUROUS, AND BRILLIANT
GRADUATED WITH THE SAME GEOLOGY DEGREE AS HER HUSBAND, BUT WITH HIGHER HONORS
SPOKE TO HOOVER IN CHINESE WHEN THEY WANTED TO TALK WITHOUT ANYONE LISTENING IN
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Eleanor Roosevelt
FIRST LADY TO FRANKLIN D. ROOSEVELT // #32
HER UNCLE, THEODORE ROOSEVELT, WALKED HER DOWN THE AISLE
DURING THE DEPRESSION, SHE WAS QUOTED IN AN ARTICLE TITLED “HOW TO SAVE IN BIG HOMES”… MUCH TO HER AND FDR’S EMBARRASSMENT.
(THE QUOTE AND HIS RESPONSE ARE PRICELESS. I’LL NEED TO SHARE THIS IN THE FUTURE.)
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Bess Truman
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Mamie Eisenhower
FIRST LADY TO DWIGHT D. EISENHOWER // #34
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Jackie Kennedy
FIRST LADY TO JOHN F. KENNEDY // #35
WOULD GIVE A “PBO’ WHEN SHE DIDN’T WANT TO DO SOMETHING — “POLITE BRUSH-OFF”
ASKED LBJ TO NAME THE SPACE CENTER AFTER JFK
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Lady Bird Johnson
FIRST LADY TO LYNDON B. JOHNSON // #36
EARNED A DOUBLE-DEGREE - HISTORY AND JOURNALISM
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Pat Nixon
FIRST LADY TO RICHARD NIXON // #37
USED TO BOBSLED WITH THE TUBERCULOSIS PATIENTS WHERE SHE WORKED
NIXON PROPOSED THE DAY THEY MET
IT TOOK HIM A WHILE TO GET HER TO AGREE; IN THE MEANTIME, HE DROVE HER TO DATES WITH OTHER GUYS
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Betty Ford
FIRST LADY TO GERALD FORD // #38
HELPED REDUCE THE STIGMA OF BOTH BREAST CANCER AND ADDICTION
CHRONICALLY TARDY, THE STAFF REFERRED TO HER AS “THE LATE BETTY FORD”
HER APPROVAL RATING WAS HIGHER THAN HIS; CAMPAIGN BUTTONS SAID “BETTY’S HUSBAND FOR PRESIDENT IN ‘76”
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Rosalynn Carter
FIRST LADY TO JIMMY CARTER // #39
THEY WERE NEIGHBORS WHEN SHE WAS A BABY
LONGEST PRESIDENTIAL MARRIAGE
BELIEVED MENTAL HEALTH WAS AS IMPORTANT AS PHYSICAL HEALTH
WORKED HER BUTT OFF TO GET A BILL PASSED INTO LAW ABOUT IT. THREE MONTHS LATER, REAGAN TOOK OVER AND STRIPPED AWAY THE FUNDING
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Jane Wyman
FIRST WIFE OF RONALD REAGAN // #40
(HE WAS HER THIRD OF FOUR HUSBANDS; SHE WAS MARRIED FIVE TIMES)
SHE AND REAGAN MARRIED IN “WEE KIRK O’ THE HEATHER”, A MEMORIAL PARK
ACTRESS
THEY BEGAN TO DRIFT APART…. THEN IN THE SAME MONTH, HE NEARLY DIED OF VIRAL PNEUMONIA AND SHE GAVE BIRTH TO A PREMATURE DAUGHTER WHO ONLY LIVED 9 HOURS
THEY SPLIT SOON AFTER
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Nancy Reagan
FIRST LADY TO RONALD REAGAN // #40
AFTER RONNIE NEARLY DIED FROM AN ATTEMPTED ASSASSINATION, NANCY BEGAN CONSULTING THE STARS AND PLANNING HIS SCHEDULE AROUND ASTROLOGY
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Barbara Bush
FIRST LADY TO GEORGE H. W. BUSH // #41
MOTHER TO GEORGE W. BUSH // #43
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Laura Bush
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Michelle Obama
FIRST LADY TO BARACK OBAMA // #44
THEY MET AT WORK: HE FELL FOR HER QUICKLY; SHE WAS SKEPTICAL
SHE TURNED HIM DOWN MULTIPLE TIMES BECAUSE SHE WAS HIS BOSS
AMONG MY FAVORITE FIRST LADIES
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Ivana Trump
FIRST WIFE OF DONALD TRUMP // #45
MARRIED TO ONE OF TWO PRESIDENTS WITH FOREIGN-BORN WIVES (IN THIS CASE, TWO FOREIGN-BORN WIVES)
FIRST EX-WIFE OF A PRESIDENT TO PREDECEASE HER EX
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Marla Maples
SECOND WIFE OF DONALD TRUMP // #45
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Melania Trump
FIRST LADY TO DONALD TRUMP // #45
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Neilia Biden
FIRST WIFE OF JOE BIDEN // #46
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Jill Biden
FIRST LADY TO JOE BIDEN // #46
*Women who performed First Lady duties … but never married presidents
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Martha "Patsy Jefferson Randolph
DAUGHTER OF THOMAS JEFFERSON
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Emily Donelson
NIECE OF ANDREW JACKSON // #7
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Sarah Jackson
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW OF ANDREW JACKSON // #7
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Angelica Van Buren
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW OF MARTIN VAN BUREN // #8
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Jane Harrison
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW OF WILLIAM HENRY HARRISON // #9
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Pricilla Cooper Tyler
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW TO PRESIDENT JOHN TYLER // #10
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Mary "Betty" Bliss
DAUGHTER OF ZACHARY TAYLOR // #12
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Harriet Lane
NIECE OF OUR ONLY BACHELOR PRESIDENT
JAMES BUCHANAN // #15
THE TERM “FIRST LADY” WAS FIRST USED WITH HARRIET
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Martha Johnson Patterson
DAUGHTER OF ANDREW JOHNSON // #17
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Mary Arthur McElroy
SISTER OF CHESTER ARTHUR // #21
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Rose Cleveland
FIRST LADY TO GROVER CLEVELAND // #22 & 24
GROVER’S SISTER
THEIR UNCLE LEWIS SAID SHE “INHERITED THE BRAINS OF THE FAMILY”
IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WEALTHY WIDOW UNTIL ROSE DIED FROM THE SPANISH FLU
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Mary McKee
DAUGHTER TO BENJAMIN HARRISON // #23
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Margaret W. Wilson
DAUGHTER OF WOODROW WILSON // #28